I know this is off topic, but I don't know where else to go. My wife and I have lost trust in each other. I made some bad judgment calls a long time ago and she has never gotten over them, and she lied to me about some things and doesn't seem to care. We have been in counseling, which is a long story involving an idiot shrink who gave us a lot of bad counseling and an insurance screw up that prevents us from going to the new one who was actually helping. I'm watching her start doing things (like the lying) that she would have never done a few months ago, and I'm having a major breakdown. If anyone can offer any advice as to how we can learn to trust eachother again, or do anything to help, please contact me. But please pray for my Katie and I even if you just read this and don't say anything. I love her more than life itself and just want to have a happy family.