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I know this is off topic, but I don't know where else to go. My wife and I have lost trust in each other. I made some bad judgment calls a long time ago and she has never gotten over them, and she lied to me about some things and doesn't seem to care. We have been in counseling, which is a long story involving an idiot shrink who gave us a lot of bad counseling and an insurance screw up that prevents us from going to the new one who was actually helping. I'm watching her start doing things (like the lying) that she would have never done a few months ago, and I'm having a major breakdown. If anyone can offer any advice as to how we can learn to trust eachother again, or do anything to help, please contact me. But please pray for my Katie and I even if you just read this and don't say anything. I love her more than life itself and just want to have a happy family.
 

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I just wanted to say thanks. I appreciate your concern and prayers too. We're regular Church people, she plays piano at the one next door. We haven't had a sit down with our minister about this, though he's told me he'd talk to us both; I should see if we can go ahead and do that. Thanks again to everyone who's read and prayed for us. God bless.
 

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K2, thanks for the concern. I knew from the beginning that it would be an everyday thing to keep it strong, and I've done all I can. My wife had a rough childhood to say the least, and is still dealing with fallout from that. The biggest problem is that she doesn't know how to be happy and see that things are good. She also has trouble with that listening part; she hasn't heard me telling her how her treatment of me has affected me for example. I honestly believe in my heart things can be as good as ever, but my efforts alone won't be enough. I do pray every day for help, and I don't think things like "why is God doing this to me?". I've been angry at God for some things I've been through in the past, it got me nowhere; I figured out that's not the way to be. I believe that God intended life to be a learning experience, this is problably supposed to teach me something. Thanks again for the concern and any continued prayers.
 
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